My Motto

Be compassionate to the needy, Neither squander wealth nor hoard it. Never lose your sense of shame, if questions are asked of you, answer them frankly but do not ask too many yourself. Be manly and of good cheer. Never kill a foe who is begging for mercy and be ever loyal in love

Own your own way

Do Not Go Where The Path May Lead, Go Instead Where There Is No Path And LEAVE a TRAIL ....
By R. Waldo Emerson

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Sacrifise 'Festival of Muslim'



Yeah.... Now that a year has passed again and our union (vuslat) is going to finish tomorrow.
We need to understand what Kurban bayrami: sacrifise festival is because it is mostly misunderstood by so many people who are both muslim and nonmuslim.
For being a muslim we just repeat these words" Lailaheh illahlah Muhammeden Rasullullah" that means There is just one GOD and Muhammed is the prophet. We, muslims, do not have to sacrifise animal animals to GOD if we are not rich enough.But It is a fact that like every religion Islam has its own conditions
These are .
  1. One should repeat the sentence that I mention above
  2. Praying( namaz kilmak)
  3. Fasting
  4. Being a pilgrimage
  5. Giving alms
However, God never wants poor people to do all these things of course. These are not mandatory for them. There is inequality in society, there are so many poors and Islam wants rich people to help poor people via this way. Islam aims to focus people`s attentions to the poor lifes and poverty and it tries to make people learn and understand how a person live.
I have read some news about animal sacrifising in India, people sacrifise so many animals to a pagan god and leave the dead bodies of the animals in the field for the god, I think this is nonsense this event should not be compared with the sacrifise festival of muslim because we sacrifise animal for GOD ok but we deliver its meat to people, we do not leave it to vulturs. And I am in some difficulties to understand how god is this that the Indian people believe, we can conclude that this poor (so called god) needs meat to live but GOD that we believe, does not need anything or anybody. GOD ask us to sacrifise animal for our sake.
Please I beg you DO NOT COMPARE this HOLY festival with INDIAN`s stupid festival. GOD gives us mind, wit, intelligence to understand life so GOD cannot force us we HAVE TO understand and evaluate life and death.

HAPPY SACRIFISE FESTIVAL OF MUSLIM
HAPPY KURBAN BAIRAM

Monday, November 23, 2009

One day, Everything will come to an end, we cannot change this but when it happens so early, we perish ourselves or I think we do.


I know that I have a few readers but I have no other people to talk here as so many of them are far away from here or work abroad. I laugh at me because paradoxically even tough I always want to be alone, I am not happy although I am on my own now and I am blue. I do not like myself when I am blue.
It is very easy for me  to charge life with my own faults and I can blame it but I must face with my life and its results and I should not complain because I can hold up these as an example for the rest of my life lest I will perish myself.
There will not be any other excuses or begging for staying together or to be together forever since as it said ,typically, let him\her go and wait to see if s\he comes back. I am tired of being sorry.
There will be no tears anymore.
Goodluck Muammer

We could not manage to be the two parts of an apple.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Friday, November 13, 2009

Wings; Launching Your Beautıful Mind


 "I AM NOWHERE TO BE FOUND"

I DO NEED SOMEONE WHO CAN TRANSLATE THIS SENTENCE INTO TURKISH or CLARIFY IT IN ANY WAYS IN ENGLISH, PLS
 HELP ME !!!!!

Make up Course, God damn it

I am supposed to be off today but somebody told me that she had wanted to have make up course to understand English grammer better than others and I accepted it by thinking that it would be just a few hours so i would still be off, I thought working ,even if it is just a few hours, is better than sleeping at home. However now I am at work and I cannot do what I plan because my student who wants to have make up course is not here and i do not think she will come so i feel myself as a donkey which carries its pack on his back and wake up in all mornings of the week and weekend. I used to come to believe people when I was student and I used to have strong beliefs about people but now I perish myself whenever I  want to be optimistic. I cannot hope anything good about this life, people should respect each other. Ok, it is right they pay money for this language education but I am not anybody`s slave or villein to go and come when desired. Working and Producing make me happy and healtier but seen as an middle age slave does makes me crazy.  I hate people living and feeding themselves carelessly in this country, I do hate people earning money in this country and  who do not pay their taxes, yet now I am one of them I am a capitalism`s modern slave. let me explain you how :-( . I work in a company in which speaking English is taught, "The boss" ask me to sign a two years contract to provide me insurance and to give my legal rights to me and I say that I do not think to work here for a long time. He, by regarding this, offered me to give a work without the job and life safety, but the most painful side is that I have to accept this offer as I need money and I am subjected to a stupid exam to gain my right in Turkey. I am  an English teacher but maths and science are asked to me even if I do not have any further education on them, they do not ask me even one English word but they ,unblushingly, can easily complain about the poor quality of language education in this country.
               
                "VIVA LA TURQUIE"

So many researches are done in this fuckin` country to show its power, politicians and generals blackmail other countries showing the fake, nominal power of the army but they are still not aware of the importance of the education. Education is the foot of everything, if you educate your youth, you can do everything whatever you want. Germany is the biggest example of this, they were defeated two times in world wars but we should remember that 99 % of the population were literate at that time while we have just 15 % literate people. This is what I mean they didnt ignore to educate the citizens from HANSEL to GRATEL.  NOW They are one of the most powerful ecomomy in this fuckin` world.

  "VIVA LA TURQUIE, VIVA LA TURQUIE"

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Hide and Seek in 9/11/2009 It was wonderful




We had so many problems but now there is nothing that i have to worry about, this is a great feelling or falling related to my beloved.  My brother got engaged three days ago and i was planning to go there, actually i was going to witness my brother`s one of the most important days. But somebody phoned me that day, it was Yasemin and she said that she had came to Istanbul. She was about to get on the plane and I was going to another city at this time. So i had to changed my route to the SAW Sabiha Gokcen International Airport, and also i had to find a reasonable excuse for not going with my family. I had to lie my family and i said them i was called from work and if i hadnt go i would be fired. Even though they didnt seem to believe, they would know how much i give importance to my family so they pretended to believe. Anyway, i had been waiting for an hour when Yasemin arrived. We went to Camlicafor having breakfast, here are some pics of it   

I adore this view and it is my habit to have breakfast here at the weekend ( by the way i havent upload our pics on my computer yet, when i do it i let you see them.
We had a great breakfast there and then we wander around Camlica for a while, we have came to believe that we cannot exist without each other. I and of course Yasemin were very happy. I decided to take small ISTANBUL tour with Yasemin. my instant plan was that

  1. to go somewhere in which  we cannot be disturbed by anybody


  2. to have a moment by the bosphorus with silence and seagulls


  3. to show Yasemin one of my favourite places in Istanbul; Tema, here is its pic  


  4. to eat something at Tema then go to Kadikoy (  the place in which i have spent my life and sorrow)

we followed this plan one by one, it was really great. there Yasemin was and i havent noticed how much i miss her till i see her again after months, this was our problem. As soon as we come together, we forget everything. But the time passed so quickly and i had to sent her back to Trabzon ( the city i hate most) Goodbye Yasemin = i am going to miss you.


Tuesday, November 10, 2009

I THINK THIS IS WORTH TO PUBLISH

Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself, but talent instantly recognizes genius.

 by SIR ARTHUR CONAN DOYLE

Friday, November 6, 2009

HERE IS MY ERZURUM; MY BELOVED CITY


Do you remember and miss this scene?

I NEED SOME OFF DAYS


I NEED SOME OFF DAYS TO BE FREE LIKE THOSE DOLPHINS, I NEED SOME OFF DAYS TO SEIZE DAY AND THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE I NEED SOME OFF DAYS TO REACH YASEMIN, I MISS HER HYSTERICALLY.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

VIVA LA DIFFERENCE !!!!!!'!

LİFE IS ACTUALLY SO BEAUTIFUL LIKE THIS SWEET FLOWER BUT ALSO IT IS SO COMPLICATED AND HARD TO SHOULDER.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

I Wanna Write Something On "Present Perfect Tense"



So many new English learners unfourtunately have troubles about the differences between "present perfect tense and the past simple tense". I believe, this is because of the similarities of the translations of both sentences that are constructed in the these forms but the solution of this entanglement is actually very easy. How ? We should first know that how many past tenses we have in Turkish. Only one but we can divide this past tense into two in its own form so we have "mışlı" and "dılı" past tenses in Turkish ( by the way I wanna add this: the people who are not Turkish language borned claim that Turks never lie because they say "you use 'mış' in your sentences as if other guys said the sentence". I think this is so funny :-))) anyway let's back to our subject.) Present PERFECT Tense tells about the things that happen in the past but go on in present or have just ended so we can still be affected by it.Have and Has are used as auxiliary verbs in Present Perfect Tense and also we are to use verb 3 ın thıs tense. These are simple differences of Present Perfect Tense. Every English teachers claim that we dont have PRESENT PERFECT TENSE in Turkish but I wanna put an argue for this because to me we do have Present Perfect Tense in Turkish not Past Simple Tense. Here are my reasons for trying to prove my idea:
             1.It ıs saıd that we do not have to use any time expressıons whıle making sentences in PRESENT  perfect tense, let's take a look to Turkish " Ben eve gittim, Ayşe top oynadı, Onlar çamurda koştular, Babam ve oğlum pikniğe gittiler." there are not any incorrectness of styles even though we use no time expressions. The same structure works in Turkish I think as it is in English.
             
             2.In Present Perfect Tense we can make a sentence like that " I have had breakfast this morning" and also in Past Simple "I had breakfast this morning". I know they are same when we translate them into Turkish : Ben bu sabah kahvaltı yaptım. I have always supported the deep meaning in the sentences, when we use Present Perfect Tense, the sentence means it is still morning so the process may go on but when we use Past Sımple Tense, it is anyother times apart from morning so the process cannot be repeated again.
            
             3.There is no proper response for Present Perfect Tense so I have made up one ı hope you lıke it    " Günümüzle Bağlantılı Geçmiş Zaman"
    Here are some examples of Present Perfect Tense:

  • Don't forget to post the letter, will you?' `I've already posted it.'
  • What time is Mark leaving?' `He's already gone
  • I've written the letter but I haven't posted it yet.
  • Jim is away on holiday. He has gone to Spain. (= he is there now or on his way there)
  • Would you like something to eat?' `No, thanks. I've just had lunch.'
  • Ow! I've cut my finger. ( it is still blooding)
  • Where's your key?' `I don't know. I've lost it.' (I haven't got it now) ( I still dont have it)




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My Dear ISTANBUL

My Dear ISTANBUL