My Motto

Be compassionate to the needy, Neither squander wealth nor hoard it. Never lose your sense of shame, if questions are asked of you, answer them frankly but do not ask too many yourself. Be manly and of good cheer. Never kill a foe who is begging for mercy and be ever loyal in love

Own your own way

Do Not Go Where The Path May Lead, Go Instead Where There Is No Path And LEAVE a TRAIL ....
By R. Waldo Emerson

Monday, December 28, 2009

Thanks Şeyma for makıng me aware of myself

Muammer Karaca said...

1. What is your biggest dream you haven't been able to accomplish yet?

being a fighting pilot was my greatest dream but i still wanna be pilot and i am gonna do it when i have enough money

2. Are you interested in fashion? Then who is your inspiration?

if i answer this by thinking on my way i do not inspire from anybody actually i am not intersted in fashion i just put on what i like i do not care what people think about my clothes but if i have to give an asnwer for a girl i am trying to follow recent fashion styles for my dear beloved and i believe i can do it, yasemin is my inspiration

3. Which day of the week do you feel YOURS most?

i think sunday is my day but it is because of family not holiday, i love being with my family and playing with my nephews and niece so i can get rid of the all pressure when i see them so ...

4. Do you watch television? What kind of programmes is your cup of tea?

yes i do in the mornings and at nights i especially adore watching news and documentaries but i hate stupid love tv series

5- I feel lonely even in the crowds because/when nobody understand what i feel or when they dont figure out my ideas

6. Can you play a musical instrument? OR if you'd want to play one, what would that be?

unfourtunately nooooo but if i could i would like to play zither because its sound makes me comfortable and soft against the life

7. What are you thinking right now?

what i think is that "what a nice song or instrumental music this is ( edward`s lullaby)

8. If you'd have to live in another country, where would you wanna go? Why?

i am really satisfied with my own country but if, one day ,if i had to abandon myland i would live in japan or madagascar because i dont know why but i like japanese culture and i wanna experience it by living there and i also love nature sea and jungle that`s why i write this african counrty

9. Which one do you do more often: Laugh or Cry? Why?

i have to confess that i am not good at doing both however i have an expert degree upon thinking and thinking and thinking and taking decision for nothing ( unhappily)

1o. Give me a good reason why you truly welcome 2010?

because i am gonna try my best to have my own famly so 2010 must, has to, should welcome me :) not ı do for it

Monday, December 7, 2009

This is for Şeyma's chain

Muammer Karaca said...

1. When exactly is your birthday?

27 August

2. What is your biggest passion?

getting to learn and understand about the life as much as ı can.

3. What are your expectations of the new year?

just some happiness and seeing my mum's sweet smiling everytime everywhere.

4. If you were given the chance to get something you want most in your entire life, what would that be?

I I had the chance I would love to help the young guy that ı dıdnt 6 years ago.

5. How would you complete this sentence below:

- I'm pissed off when somebody orders me

6. What was the most interesting class you've ever taken?


7. What is your favorite flower? Why?

White roses as they represent the purity and true friendship

8. Would you still love or be friends with someone that did you wrong? Why?

I cannot be

9. Why do you blog?

lying to myself

1o. How would you describe your philosophy in life, if you have one?

too desperate to kill myself but alsoooooo too happy to hug everybody

Sunday, December 6, 2009

You fellas, I need help


Living but cannot loving in Istanbul

Here is my quote;
 Always try to be friend with whom that tries to be friend but never insist on keeping on it.
I sometimes wonder who I am or what I should do.
I have now understood the meaning of the "blue".
If I am blue so I can be ice, too. Right ?
I am an alone community who fight against my own cruelity to save the life in me ever since I have lost my beliefs and self-confidence. I was wrong on so many things. Everything was seen me as Istanbul that hundreds or even millions of kings and soldiers died or were killed for the sake of conquering this superb city, I should be like Istanbul to be conguered for the sake of me. I try to renew myself and there will not be any places for females.
I go to work by bus and it takes maximum 15 minutes but three days ago i decided to walk home and then I did it. I was so stupid that i could not noticed this beauty before, there is a perfect view and although I have passed over it for at least 20 years i couldnt understand how beautiful it is. And these days if it is not so cold, I walk home it takes 50 minutes but it can make me so happy. Hearing the voices of the nature again gives me pleasure, and i will never try to forget my past as whaever it is it is mine, I will try to live with it.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

For being Happy

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Whisper to each other.
3. Cook for each other.
4. Walk in the rain.
5. Hold hands
6. Buy gifts for each other.
7. Roses.
8. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.
9. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
10. Write poetry for each other.
11. Hugs are the universal medicine.
12. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
13. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
14. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie!
15. Spend every second possible together.
16. Look into each other's eyes.
17. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
18. When in public, only flirt with each other.
19. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
20. Buy her a ring.
21. Sing to each other.
22. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
23. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
24. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
25. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
26. Dance together.
27. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
28. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
29. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
30. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
31. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
32. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
34. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
35. Be Prince Charming to her parents.
36. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
37. Hang out with his/her friends.
38. Go to /Mosque: pray/worship together.
39. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
40. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
41. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
42. Make sacrifices for each other.
43. Really love each other, or don't stay together.
44. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
45. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
46. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
47. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
48. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
49. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
50. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, Sweet dreams."


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